Posts tagged as «Psychology»

After several conversations with the class, I still get what bloody brawl stop, but in general these problems persist. How can we solve this problem? Psychoanalytic pedagogy comes from the fact that conflicts are always supported by unconscious motives and adequate assistance can be provided only when one can understand their unconscious dynamics. In this case, three concepts of psychoanalysis and psychoanalytic pedagogy are important for understanding these conflicts. This concept of transference, countertransference and stage understanding. Sigmund Freud discovered that the sense of spirit and model of the relationship that had once been his father, mother, brothers, sisters and other close people carry on relationships in the present tense. This phenomenon, he call – transfer. Transfer requires every person, without him it could not navigate the new social situations. Unconsciously, we compare the strangers from those who were close to us when we were kids.

If this comparison helps us to evaluate these people as they really are, then we're not talking about moving in the psychoanalytic sense. Often spoken about the move when there was a strange experience obsessive man, such an experience, which was once a child. Transfer suggests that the man often unknowingly provoke take the role once played an important loved one, or continues to play it. This occurs when with him has not been resolved unconscious conflict. Particularly frequent transfer occurs at the teacher, and so once again ignite old conflicts. It is connected with the function of teachers to educate, to appoint certain rules praise and blame, to protect and punish.

In such conditions, the existential experiences do not serve as orienting of our life. Each moment is only independent e; it does not have continuity. It is not possible to treat new experiences as if they were old; we have that to live deeply each new experience of different form. It does not have necessity of if fixing in the past, in a useless attempt to modify what already it happened, therefore, to change our way of life, is only enough to live the gift with wisdom. The time does not stop, and this serves in them of alert not acting in way displicente in relation to the life.

It does not have time to lose with superfluous things. The essential one is to make our life to be valid to the penalty. What it exists is the free-will, does not have daily pay-determination. Each event is analyzed at the moment of its occurrence and our reply it will be emitted in function in the way with we interpret that it. Several will be, therefore, the ways with that we will relate in them with the world. finally, it is not depended on the future to supply what it lacked in the past. The train and the time, in this situation, are a way without return, always pulling in them. It does not have time for promise, nor for I recommence.

In relation to the time created by us, psychological time, of the virtual conscience or: We will speak now on the train of the life. We will never obtain to create one with different characteristics of that it possesss. It does not suffer any influence from our will. It will continue its way, exactly that let us not desire. He does not have interior force he hinders that it to follow in front. Already in relation to the time of the train of the life, we can recriar it and live it psychologically.

Very often in the excuses smokers are such phrases: 'I like to smoke', 'I smoke because it gives me the opportunity to relax, calm your nerves', "Smoking brings people into the conversation," and much more. All it says something about the internal psychological weakness of man, or of unwillingness to throw myself a challenge and always leave with addiction. But now the question is not about these people, but about those who, wishing to give up smoking, is ready to overcome this situation and has a strong commitment. For first step is to try as much as possible to avoid contact with smoking in persons, especially in places where smoking is permitted and available. Thus, you will be able once again to protect themselves from possible break, or do not resist the companion proposal to light it. Indeed, to refuse to make the company another smoker is sometimes really difficult. It was during this period, a joint initiative smoke break ever tempting and full of temptation, which may result in denial of the set in front of goal.

Make sure that you have never been either at home or at his cigarette. You should totally eliminate any possibility of using the "nest egg". Otherwise If you can once again begin to smoke, and not having to quit the habit. It will be important to distract from thoughts of smoking, that is to switch your thoughts, for example, to do work, school, loved ones or any other important and useful. The less you concentrate and think up the goals, the more chances you have at a subconscious switch and complete elimination of smoking from your life. It should not be refer to the parting of smoking as a huge and important losses of loss. You do not even suspect that any good effect it can have on you in the future. Besides, most smokers, after some time generally no longer thought of as cigarettes, and generally of any opportunities to smoke, although previously it seemed to them quite a mission impossible.

One must believe in yourself and in your hand! After all, smoking – is the enemy of your health and actually no benefit from it and there can not be. Calm nerves, to find a reason to socialize, take yourself to an extra free minute and just blow off is possible in many other ways. Quit smoking, you have nothing to lose, and vice versa get: pep you save time and money, the nervous system and most importantly – your health. You can truly be proud of himself and his achievements with success!